I'm Lori, therapist turned dating coach. I help high-achieving women break unhealthy dating patterns, stop chasing unavailable partners, and build lasting connection.  I know how frustrating modern dating can be—like you’re doing everything “right” but still ending up in the same exhausting cycles. Real, healthy love doesn’t come from trying harder—it comes from approaching dating in a way that actually serves you. 

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dr lori

2017

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2020

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2019

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2016

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2014

Attachment Styles

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This free workbook will show you how to create a personal dating system to decrease burnout, help you feel more empowered, and hone in on finding your ideal partner!

Modern Love Survival Guide

Yes, I need this!

I have a PhD in Clinical Psychology and spent years studying human behavior, relationships, and emotional well-being. But even with all that knowledge, dating as a driven, career-focused woman wasn’t easy. I found myself in the same cycles so many smart, ambitious women know too well: over-giving, over-analyzing, and wondering why dating felt more like a high-stakes performance review than an exciting beginning.

Today, I use everything I’ve learned both professionally and personally to help women find and co-create healthy, meaningful partnerships.  You don’t have to figure it out alone.


I Studied Relationships for Years and Still Struggled with Dating

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You are enough for the hearts that are meant to love you. You are enough for the life that is meant to be yours.

-Brianna Wiest