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Modern dating tells women they have to work hard to “get the guy.” Swipe more. Be more desirable. Text the right way. Play the game. But let’s be real—this approach is exhausting, outdated, and doesn’t work.
Dating isn’t a full-time job—you don’t have to hustle for love.
Are You Stuck in the Husband Hustle?
I'm a psychologist turned modern dating strategist, and I know firsthand how frustrating it can be to thrive in every area of life except love. For years, I found myself in patterns of over-giving, second-guessing, and waiting for potential to turn into partnership. Like so many women, I had to unlearn the quiet conditioning that taught me to prioritize being chosen over choosing what was right for me. Now, I help high-achieving women stop over-functioning in love, rewrite their dating narratives, and attract partners who meet them at their level—without settling, self-abandoning, or shrinking themselves to fit.
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hi, i'm dr. lori
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If you’re tired of the Husband Hustle, overanalyzing texts, attracting unavailable partners, and feeling like love is a deadline—you’re in the right place. I help ambitious, high-achieving women break free from exhausting dating cycles and start attracting the right relationships with confidence, ease, and self-worth. Whether you’re looking for personalized coaching, a dating profile refresh, or a supportive membership community, I’ve got a strategy that works.
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1:1 Dating Coaching
This free workbook will show you how to create a personal dating system to decrease burnout, help you feel more empowered, and hone in on finding your ideal partner!
Modern Love Survival Guide
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